people are actually reading this!!

first I have to say thank you to everyone who has been reading my blog I can't believe I got 30 page views today!!! madness!! so thank you so so so so much!! I would snog you all if I could !! ha ha I hope you've all enjoyed what I've tried to write / ramble!!! And if you don't want to miss another beautifully fantastically written blog post please follow me!!!! :)


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love bon xxx

and they lived happily ever after

 me being a wee bit excited with my magazine!! excuse the no make up!!!




eeeeeeeeeekkkkkkkkkkk iv heard the rumours that there was finally a magazine on the high street that wasn't all conveyer type bullshit (excuse my language but i really hate them) so I decided to check it out I wasn't disappointed finally a magazine that understands that every bride is different that not all brides want the same type of wedding as everyone else .... who even decided that is what a wedding should look like?? obviously it's nice to have the traditions but what traditions to keep are up to the brides and grooms not the big bosses sat laughing at their desks....... so for £2.95 ( cheaper than a lot of the other  magazines out there) I got awesome weddings the type I wished i'd be invited too and some really cool d.i.y ideas that yo know i'm going to be trying!!! haha

also on saturday we are having our engagement photos done by the lovely terri warner can't wait hopefully oak doesn't start throwing up like he did last time we tried to get them done!!!!

my baby girl violet when she was a bridesmaid for my mum :) taken by terri xx




thats all for now !!


love and strawberry milkshake doughnuts bon xx

thank goodness for bleach!!

haha bit of a weird title  I know!! but after all the stress I most definitely have quite a few more grey hairs!!!

the weekend just gone was mine and oaks engagement party oh my days the stress was un real I am probably the most laid back person I really hated it the build up to it (except getting my ring ) haha and to be fair Im not sure it was even worth it we had an amazing time till the end and good old alcohol decided to ram a cactus up a few peoples arses and ruined my night me and oak ended up rowing with each other so what I thought was going to be an evening of sexiness turned into me crying  myself to sleep :( so I've not been the happiest bunny ever buttttttttttttt it's done now the cakes were lush as was the food!! I swear my mouth is still burning from the onion bhajis ha ha ohhhh and one other little thing I got proposed to again oak was so nervous I couldn't help but laugh at him ( I'm such a supportive girlfriend!!) the last proposal was a very drunken one at the top of the stairs and we nearly fell down...... my ring is beautiful!!

i love it :)

we also have kittens!!!!!! my beautiful buttercup has had 4 kittens 

from left - right selene , socks , tilly and cheeky :) think you can tell which ones I named and which ones the kids called ha ha :)

oh and I'm also a blondie now well it's kinda a candyfloss colour really light blonde and baby pink!!! I'm actually loving it finally happy with the colour!! not impressed with the roots though!! 2 days after colouring it and I had roots!!! whats that about!!!



i've also been looking for some new blogs to read of a night time and I came across call me Lucille oh my days serious girl crush on this lady!!!! Her style is amaze balls!! please check it out if you love 40s 50s clothes and hair styles!!

p.s I want her wardrobe!!!!!


anyways I'm off to get some kitten love and get this house sorted!!!!!



mwah love and craziness bon xx